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Can You Love Two People at the Same Time?

I have always been a firm believer in the fact that you can never love two people at the same time. The fact that you veered of is an indication that you might have fallen out of love. However, I have experienced a number of things in the past that left me confused. Can a single person be in love with two people at the same time? One such situation I encountered is where by a girlfriend encouraged her boyfriend to get another girlfriend. I am yet to know the reasons but this guy went ahead and now has two girlfriends. They all seem happy. Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time? How does it feel? Would you stay in such a relationship? I would appreciate if your poll answer is accompanied by an explanation.


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OTHERS Please Expound

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Ravenmount wrote on June 30, 2014, 8:35 AM

Yes, of course you can love two people (or many people) at the same time. Over the course of your life you meet many people for whom you feel love, but each love is different, and only some loves are ones that lend themselves to mutual commitment. Not all love lasts forever, and just because you love someone, that need not imply that it is mutual, or that acting on your love for them is always a good idea.

DoubleDabrew wrote on June 30, 2014, 8:51 AM

Thank for this. Guess the point is that it is all different how we love and even show love for different people. Hadn't looked at it this way.

DorothyGale wrote on July 10, 2014, 11:29 PM

If you look at it logically, we love two people at once all the time. If we have kids, we love them all (hopefully!). Most of us love both of our parents. That doesn't mean we get along as well with both, or that we click to the same degree with bot, but we do love both. So it only stands to reason that the same is true in romantic relationships. At least, that's my thought on it. :)

Kidame wrote on July 14, 2014, 12:17 AM

Hell no there is no way i can share hi with another,if it is me then let it be me but when another comes in i will gladly leave,hehee jealous me lol

DoubleDabrew wrote on July 16, 2014, 7:53 PM

Hahahaha. True that Kidame . This situation generated another post on the other site. I wonder how people tolerate it.

Kidame wrote on July 16, 2014, 10:02 PM

I also wonder how they live like that but anyway in this world and this generation i guess anything is possible