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She is not a door mat

I don't understand why most men blame it on women when they cheat! Yesterday there was a discussion on one of the local radio stations in my country. A man had called the presenters and told them he cheats on his wife because of their baby, seriously? He went on to explain that he started cheating as soon as they got their first child. I think women should be treated with respect, I mean, they try, they try really hard.

That man was busy washing his dirty linen in public about his wife; how she gives so much time to the baby, she has gained so much weight, she has stretchmarks and the list goes on and on!What a shame, would he have preferred to be without that baby and have his wife in perfect condition as he calls it?NO. If you want to be committed to someone, to get married and have a family, then you should be ready to deal with the changes that come with it. Try to be open and communicate with each other. If you feel your wife has gained so much weight why not support and encourage her to shade off some by jogging with her or taking her to the gym?If you don't want to see those stretchmarks, why not help her to get products that can help improve her skin if not wipe them out? If the child or children are taking much of her time and you feel left out, why not talk to her and even plan to go somewhere away from the kids and have your own time?

My point is, nothing and I mean nothing can justify infidelity either way. You better tell someone you don't love them no matter how hurtful it maybe than pretend to love them but treat them like a door mat! Do not treat your wife like a door mat all she deserves is real love, respect and appreciation!

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gidget wrote on July 17, 2014, 10:40 AM

What a rhymes with rick! I am going to go out on a limb and say that most new fathers are not like that. However, many new fathers will get jealous of the baby, particularly the time the mother spends with the baby, time that could be spent with him. That man is very shallow and I hope the wife finds out and throws him out.

KimRemesch wrote on July 17, 2014, 2:24 PM

The answer is pretty simple: they blame the other person because if they blamed themselves, they'd have to take responsibility for the behavior. Most wrongdoers aren't good about admitting guilt and owning it.

paigea wrote on July 17, 2014, 2:35 PM

Very sad. I agree with gidget that most men are not like that. Many could help with the house and children more, which would give the mother more time and energy!

midastouch wrote on July 22, 2014, 2:37 PM

I agree with you
nothing can justify infidelity
that man should be flogged in public!!!!