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Love marriage vs arrange marriage..What do you prefer????

Today the topic against which I am going to speak is a very hot topic especially in some Asian countries.Right now specifically,I am talking about my country Pakistan...Here this point is discussed always and there is a lot of conflict between new and old generation in this matter.New generation prefer love marriages more because they think it develops understanding between them while the old generation believes in the arrange marriages because they believe that it does creates a sense of safety and the relations made by elder ones are more durable than the emotional matching of the youth.

According to my opinion,a fair option should be given to every one and afterwards they can judge the person by this but It also depends upon fate..

So what do you think that either arrange marriages are good or love marriages?

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bestwriter wrote on July 15, 2014, 6:31 AM

This is rather a cliched topic. There are plus and minus points in both thoughts but at the end of the day what ticks is trust and understanding and last but not the least giving space to each other.

indexer wrote on July 15, 2014, 1:50 PM

This is something that people in western countries have great difficulty with, because it seems so contrary to every notion we have about marriage being freely chosen by the people involved. Clearly this is a cultural thing, and it is completely foreign to western culture. There are huge problems in my country (United Kingdom) caused when girls are tricked into travelling to Pakistan - supposedly going on holiday - only to find that they are then forced to marry someone they have never met. To most people, this is just utterly horrific and completely wrong.

LeaPea2417 wrote on August 19, 2014, 5:26 PM

I use to be against arranged marriages. But, now after having thought about it a lot, I think in certain situations, it would be beneficial. It really has to do with the particular person. I know a young man who made a very unwise choice in his choice of a mate. His parents should have arranged his marriage. It would have been better for him. I see the value in arranged marriages and marriage for love depending on the situation.